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THE CO-FOUNDER OF the Ask.fm website has written about his thoughts on online bullying, following the death of an Irish teenager who was allegedly bullied by anonymous users of the site.
Mark Terebin was asked on his own page on the Latvian-based Ask.fm website why he had not yet commented on the situation.
In his reponse, Terebin said:
Mass media is knocking on wrong door. It is necessary to go deeper and to find a root of a problem. Its not about the site, the problem is about education, about moral values that were devaluated [sic] lately.
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Terbin described Ask.fm as “just a tool which helps people to communicate with each other, same as any other social network, same as phone, same as piece of paper and pen”.
Don’t blame a tool, but try to make changes… start with yourself… be more polite, more kind, more tolerant of others… cultivate these values in families, in schools.Suicide is not something to encourage via mass media. The more you promote suicide, the more it happen.
With regard to the media’s interest in online bullying, he wrote:
Do you think mass media cares? They want scandals, they want sensations and finally they want money. Sorry, but we do not want to participate in it. What happened is a true tragedy and we give our deepest condolences to the victim’s family and relatives.
Donegal girl Erin Gallagher (13) was found dead at home on Saturday, a day after responding to a question on Ask.fm by saying she was being bullied. National suicide charity Console urged victims of online bullying to seek help immediately if they are being abused online.
SpunOut.ie released a set of guidelines for how to deal with online and text bullying in the wake of Erin’s death, and the death of Ciara Pugsley, who also died tragically after allegedly being bullied online .
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My hair started leaving the building in my mid 20s. Initially it was dreadful. I was all about tactical hair manoeuvres. Eventually I decided to zero blade the lot. Best decision I made.
see the ad where the guy drives a sports car into what looks like a hotel lobby, and he’s delighted with his wind-swept hair afterwards.. utter madness
People fear uncertainty.
Men worry more about going bald because they fear it’s a real possibility they’ll end up having less sex.
Whereas finding a wife means less sex is pretty much guaranteed..
I read the article again. I don’t accept many of its findings … Such as, lack of confidence … Thats bulshit too. The most severe side effect that I’ve experienced is … You get cold very quickly when outside without a hat in winter, and severe sunburn if you go out without a hat in summer.
Those are the only side effects ive ever had
You go bald because you have too much Dihydrotestosterone… this affects the hair follicles on the top of your head but not the follicles on the back and sides. There is a drug called finasteride that when taken daily lowers the amount of Dihydrotestosterone the body produces slowing down and stopping hair loss. Then just get a hair transplant for the thinning parts of your head. Check out dhi in Blackrock…
Martin I know a guy that got a hair transplant years ago.now he’s gone bald everywhere else but the top of his head where he got the transplant.what would you do then
I started losing mine in my early 20′s and it was a genuinely traumatic experience. I went from looking 20 to 35 in 12 months, I got the constant piss pulled out of me and I couldn’t get within 5 feet of a girl my age in a nightclub without being looked at like an old creep. It killed my confidence and had a huge effect on my life.
Strange that we have to grin and bear it when we get ripped to pieces for something that we can’t control, yet taking the piss out of a girl for gaining weight because she eats too much chocolate and is too lazy to go to the gym is socially unacceptable…..
Martin, is there a way to put hair on my chest? I’m 32 and I haven’t got a single hair on my chest and I’ve moobs. :-)
I know how to get rid of my moobs – exercise n loose weight.
Bald since my 20s but shaved it before that anyway. Never bothered my confidence. Nice to see regaine taking such a vested interest in a survey like this though.
Bald since my 20s but shaved it before that anyway. Never bothered my confidence. Nice to see regaine taking such a vested interest in a survey like this though. Detect the sarcasm…
The advice I heard over the years to keep your hair relatively strong and to ward off baldness is to wash hair in warm water, not hot water and not to use shampoo at all. However conditioner is ok to use apparently.
Some men are ok with it some are not! As a young guy who knows these are your only options that work. 1) Minoxdil – always buy online years supply is €50 2) nirozal shampoo – during clinical trials they found the side effects causes hair loss to slow down. It can be bought anywhere for dandruff
3) propecia – a tablet that blocks the hormone responsible for hairloss. Most effective but kills the sex drive.
4) hair transplant – take the hair from the back and put it up on top but very expensive. 5) and finally live with it. If you don’t care and you can pull off the Jason statham look then go for it. Don’t buy anything for hairloss in shops as its all online for 10% the price
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