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Andrew Dolan's mother recalled the night in December 2011 when her son was assaulted. RTE Crimecall

"I shouldn’t be putting flowers on Andrew’s grave" - A mother's plea to young Irish men

Mother of a young man who died in an assault has pleaded with young men to think of the consequences of their actions.

THE MOTHER OF a young man who died after an assault during a night out has pleaded with young men to think about the consequences of violent actions.

Andrew Dolan was at a fast-food restaurant in Mullingar with his friends when he was viciously attacked by three people. The six blows to the head the 23-year-old received resulted in serious brain damage, and he died ten days later on New Year’s Day, 2011.

A man and woman in their 20s were acquitted of Dolan’s manslaughter, getting community service in lieu of a prison sentence, and another male is now serving a three-year sentence for Andrew Dolan’s manslaughter.

Speaking on RTÉ’s Crimecall tonight while holding a picture of her son, mother Rosie Dolan told host Keelin Shanley of the “horrific” moment they were given the news, but that they still thought “he’ll be okay”.

“The phone call coming through at three o’clock in the morning saying that something happened to my son and to get there as quick as we could up to Mullingar. Horrific, absolutely horrific.

But we still thought maybe he’ll be okay, maybe it’s only a cut nose or something like that and when we arrived up he was sitting up in the bed in Mullingar Hospital.

“The dangerous thing with a head injury is you can come back around again and then the swelling starts and he just deteriorated. We were rushed up to Beaumont Hospital and ten days later he died.”

She also said that her son was not the only young victim of violence at Christmas time that year:

In Beaumont, there were three Andrews there. That was Christmas 2011, there were three people who’d been assaulted in that unit at that time. Three people dying over Christmas, it was just horrific for us.

‘A punch can kill’

In the interview, Rosie described her son as ”gentle, witty, academically very good, and he loved sports”.

ANDREWDOLAN-4 RTÉ Crimecall RTÉ Crimecall

She said that Andrew had hoped to go on and study medicine, and that he and his best friend had plans to set up a practice in Scotland, where they’d been on holiday.

“So his hope for the future has been robbed from him.”

Andrew shouldn’t be dead, I shouldn’t be putting flowers on Andrew’s grave. And I would plead with people today to realise that a punch can and does kill.

Rosie pleaded to young men to think about their actions and the effect they may have, and asked people to look after one another when they’re on nights out:

“I think friends have a responsibility when they’re out to call halt, to maybe get a taxi for someone home and get them home if they think they can’t control themselves.”

Earlier this month, An Garda Síochána launched the campaign ’Use Your Brain Not Your Fists’, which aims to give young men information about the consequences of assaulting another person – losing your job, ability to travel and jail time.

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    Mute Marc Murphy
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    Jan 22nd 2021, 6:32 AM

    Very brave lady and best wishes to you. Can’t help but think it would send an even stronger message if he was locked up for the full sentence and none of this early release good behavior B.S

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 2:36 PM

    @Marc Murphy: yes .. I think that good lady will be fearful of his release , as anyone would be . Wouldn’t think he will be welcomed into the prison or when he is released though.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 6:25 AM

    And Hopefully Sends a Strong Message to Other Men.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 6:31 AM

    @The Divils Avocado: he’s not a man, No man would do that to a woman. What he is, is unprintable here.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 7:47 AM

    @The Divils Avocado: Hopefully it sends a strong message to other judges.

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    Mute Contrary Mary
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    Jan 22nd 2021, 9:12 AM

    @The Divils Avocado: Coercive control does not always include physical abuse and only men as perpetrators. We are decades behind other Western countries understanding or addressing that.

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    Mute Carol Conway
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    Jan 22nd 2021, 7:20 AM

    And sends an equally strong message to abusers too.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 10:23 AM

    The Victim is the real hero in this story. To be put under that kind of abuse and threat and still go to the Authorities and fight him is absolutely awesome. Kudos to you. You Deserve all the happiness in the world.
    Great for the courts and Gardai to back her up as well, it’s a fantastic day for Justice in Ireland.

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    Mute Trevor Connolly
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    Jan 22nd 2021, 8:13 AM

    Howcome this is not attempted murder

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 9:17 AM

    @Trevor Connolly: No intent motive? Circumstances considered by our justice prior to charges.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 9:09 AM

    10 years is not enough. Throw away the key. There’s no place on this earth for a lowlife like that.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 9:08 AM

    Waiting for landmark case of coercive control abuse with no physical abuse involved.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 7:33 AM

    Insidious is the word. People like this guy should be rooted out.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 11:05 AM

    My comment earlier got deleted – I assume because I said “Thank you, Laura Richards!” Laura is not the poor lady who survived the attacks. Laura Richards is former Scotland Yard and it is she who works with police and governments around the world, including Northern Ireland and us here, to educate and change / bring in laws in cases of coercive control and stalking. Check her out! https://www.laurarichards.co.uk/about-me/. The lady in this case is very brave. I wish her a continued recovery. I also hope her bravery will help others in similar situations make a life saving decision and seek help.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 9:17 AM

    As it’s the first conviction of this nature I wouldn’t be surprised if the length of the sentence is appealed.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 2:07 PM

    Let’s hope that this lowlife has a hard time at the hands of the other inmates

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 8:18 AM

    I hope the same results would happen if it was a woman who was charged but don’t think so because the State isn’t interested in that sort of thing.

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    Jan 22nd 2021, 6:08 PM

    He will have a hard time in prison. I really hope so.

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