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7 tips for hosting the perfect family dinner

You’ll fear the Sunday roast no more.

IF THE THOUGHT of cooking dinner for more than yourself (and maybe one other lucky person), gives you the Absolute Fear, worry not.

Help is at hand.

Whether it’s your first time hosting a family dinner, or just something you want to be a little better at, we’ve rounded up seven helpful tips to help that dinner go more smoothly.

We’re not talking about anything super fancy here – you don’t have to bring out the good china, don’t worry. But there’s lots you can do to enable the dinner, the cooking, and the day go brilliantly.

So, let’s get started, shall we?

1. Prep and plan

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Depending on how many people are coming you’re going to have to do some calculating before you go grocery shopping.

Not only that, but it’s good to work out a plan for what needs to go into the oven and when. So, if you know your chicken is going to take 2 hours, but your potatoes only an hour, but you need to start peeling them 30 mins before you put them in… See how it can get complicated?

So, work it out – or if you have a chance at all, doing a trial run (if it’s a particularly important dinner) could be well worth the effort.

2. Now – to the shops

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But before you do, make sure you double and triple check that you’ve made a list that includes all the ingredients you need. It’s so easy to think you have something, and find you’re out mid-way through cooking – or even to not read the recipe properly and realise that you’re missing a key ingredient.

Make a list. Check it twice – Santa Claus-style.

3. Brush up on your knife  skills

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Now, we’ve given you a relatively in-depth tutorial in knife basics right here, so you’ve no excuse not to be a dab hand with the chopping. Practice is essential, as is keeping those fingertips out of the way.

Again, give yourself plenty of time to do any chopping, dicing and slicing. Accidents have no place in this kitchen.

No place.

4. Ready, set, cook

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Here is when your formidable planning and organisation skills come into play.

Whatever recipe you’ve planned to perfection, now is the time to implement that strategy military-style.

Because once you have everything in the oven, or simmering away gently you can start to relax a little.

5. Chill for a minute… but not too long

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Take a deep breath – you’ve most of the hard work out of the way. Congrats.

Sit for a minute, put your feet up. Appreciate the work you’ve done.

But don’t get carried away – there’s still more to do.

Now is the time to get dressed, put the final touches on your outfit, and then straight back to work. It’s about time to set the table, check everything’s progressing as planned – taste, salt, and baste as necessary.

Now’s also a good time to get as much of the clean up out of the way so you’re not faced with a ridiculous amount of washing up after dinner, when all you want to do is faceplant the couch.

6. Wine uncorking

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Now is the time to crack open that bottle of wine to ‘let it breathe’. Or you know, to sample it and make sure it’s ok. Just the one glass though, you still have responsibilities in the kitchen.

Would be a shame for all your hard work to go up in smoke this close to the finish.

7. Enjoy

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The most important part of the meal is not actually the food (now we tell you), it’s the sharing the food with your invited guests. So try not to freak out if everything doesn’t go to plan – at the end of the day, that won’t really matter.

What will matter is that you handled any issues with grace, you sat down with your guests, and ate, and laughed.

Everything else will be forgotten. We promise.

Have we inspired you to throw a dinner party soon? Have we missed any crucial tips? Let us know in the comments below.

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 12:56 PM

    They must of heard the news about Pat Kenny!

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    Mute Barry
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:01 PM

    Got to laugh at the picture

    “Baboons (picture posed by models)”

    Model Baboons eh?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:28 PM

    Yeah… the shouldn’t insult Baboon’s intelligence by comparing them to models :P

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 10:30 PM

    Skittin!

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    Aug 3rd 2013, 12:37 AM

    A baboon refused to pass the Dutchie….

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    Mute Pádraig Ó Máirtín
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:14 PM

    The correct term for a group of baboons is a flange

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    Mute Silent Majority
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 3:38 PM

    It’s not, a troop is the correct term. But flange has become quite common in recent years and bizarrely it originates from that not the 9 o clock news sketch with Rowan Atkinson dressed up as a monkey – they chose to use flange over troop as they thought it sounded funnier and the term has since appeared even in academic papers!

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:35 PM

    We’ll stick with flange

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:40 PM

    Ya, i watch QI too, I do prefer flange though

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    Aug 3rd 2013, 12:39 AM

    Is that because of their pinkish/orange piles?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:01 PM

    Intelligent animals, maybe going on strike for freedom..

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 12:54 PM

    What’s wrong? No one said anything about the government yet

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:32 PM

    Thats because it was the Banks…

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:30 PM

    Darren, that’s because Baboons are an intelligent species as compared to the Dodos in Government and their supporters?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:36 PM

    They’ve heard how much Gareth Bale is being sold for.

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    Mute Ian Walsh
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:25 PM

    Rise of the Planet of the Baboons just doesn’t have the same ring to it…

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:28 PM

    Picture posed by models lol …I hope thats a piss take lol

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 3:16 PM

    It’s no wonder they needed a break, sure they’ve only had 4 days off in 20 years.
    As for the pic, poor Glenda Gilson really isn’t doing too well for herself these days.

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:12 PM

    Just a theory but as they are probably all closely related, and sharing the same piece of land for a long time, did the subject of wills and inheritance happen to come up by any chance?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 12:51 PM

    Somebody must have thrown in some muffins into them to eat!

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:02 PM

    No doubt!

    Their keepers should get them a stereo with some Pink Floyd, dark side of the moon.
    Order a couple of pizzas.

    Tommow they will be right as rain.

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    Aug 3rd 2013, 6:03 PM

    They must have mistook a few holland jerseys as an orange parade and acted accordingly

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 3:12 PM

    Maybe….? something to do with….? realizing that….they live on a small island? And not in the wild? Anyone? Anyone? Beuller? Beuller?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 8:10 PM

    Maybe it was the Thunder and Lightning.

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:24 PM

    Their taking strike action for the shit food that they are been given

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 2:35 PM

    Are the models in baboon costumes?

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:26 PM

    I’m just gutted someone got there before me with the Pat Kenny gag!!

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:24 PM

    I’ve solved the puzzle!!!!! They were shown a photo of the attendees at the Council of State meeting
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 3:04 PM

    They probably saw what they’re own @r$e looked like for the first time.

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 3:08 PM

    Obviously an anti-Christ sighting á la ‘Damien from The Omen’.
    He’s amongst us.

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    Aug 3rd 2013, 12:55 AM

    It’s bugging me so much that we’ll never know the true answer!
    I find behavior like this in animals so interesting and id absolutely love to know what caused it.
    Did anyone suggest a “paranormal” cause? Just because you’ve never seen/experienced it doesn’t mean they’re not real!

    Also people say animals have a sixth sense!

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 4:27 PM

    these bamboons must have heard about property tax:-)

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 9:57 PM

    Ya they must have gotten the 7-day warning letter! LoL

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:41 PM

    IMF panicking baboons again sounds familiar

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 6:06 PM

    These are intelligent animals, and most likely have a very effective means of communicating complex information among themselves. Given that, perhaps they have just learned of a pending disaster looming over them. …

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 6:09 PM

    Did they not keep a diary of why they acted like that before??

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    Aug 2nd 2013, 1:21 PM

    Pub crawl. Shark attack!!!

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    Aug 3rd 2013, 4:20 AM

    Damien.
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    Aug 2nd 2013, 5:55 PM

    A few bananas for the boys always sorts me out…. Nothing more really

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