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QUIZ: How Good Are Your People Skills, Really? 

Let’s find out.

AH, PEOPLE SKILLS.

Sometimes it feels as though they’re a bit of a lost art, doesn’t it?

But we know there are still people out there with impeccable interpersonal acumen. The perfect blend of conviviality, manners and charm. Is that you? We can tell you…

1. You get into the lift at work and the new guy is in there. It's a bit awkward tbh. How do you defuse the situation?
Smile widely and extend your hand for a firm shake
Mumble something about him being welcome to the team

Nothing. No one likes a lift talker
2. How good are you at remembering people's names?
Abysmal, frankly
Hit and miss, depending on circumstances

Not to be smug, but excellent - and I also try to remember a litle fact about them too
3. Do you often find yourself acting as a mediator in the group Whatsapp of your pals?
I'm more likely to be fanning for the flames for the LOLs...
Yes, I like to try and keep the peace

The odd time yeah
4. Are you an introvert, extrovert - or an ambivert (mix of both)?
Extrovert and proud!
Introvert I'm afraid

Ambivert - really depends on my mood
5. Pick what you'd be most likely to use as an ice-breaker/small talk fodder in the pub.
"See the match?"
"Did anyone see the latest bit of news on Brexit?"

Nothing, don't believe in small talk really
6. How are your listening skills? And we're not talking about office eavesdropping here, by the by.
Sorry, come again?
Pretty good I think!
7. Are you any cop at negotiating - or rather, getting your own way with people?
Let's just say I manage to get a raise every performance review
No. I find sulking tends not to work

Hmm, I'm not the worst
Answer all the questions to see your result!
You scored out of !
You've got dream people skills!
Fair play to you. You're right on top of the whole interpersonal skill set thing. Keep on doing what you're doing. You're killing it.
Share your result:
You scored out of !
You've fairly solid people skills
You have your moments - you definitely have a dab hand at a bit of charm every now and again, but there are moments when the mask can slip. Keep at it!
Share your result:
You scored out of !
Hmm...
Are you sure people skills are really your forte? Perhaps there are other things in life you excel at. Schmoozing just may not be one of them. You're a straight shooter.
Share your result:

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    Mute Earth Traveller
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    Jul 31st 2019, 6:56 AM

    So a no-deal Brexit would be bad for the economy but so would an orderly Brexit. And does anyone really believe that inflation is only 1 percent per annum in this country? I assume the Central Bank guy is not renting accommodation or paying crèche fees.

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    Mute joe
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    Jul 31st 2019, 9:31 AM

    @Earth Traveller: yes…inflation is low. Are any of your day to day products in a basket of goods going up?

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    Jul 31st 2019, 9:34 AM

    @Earth Traveller: yes…inflation is low. Are any of your day to day products in a basket of goods going up? Competition is driving retail prices down. The majority of people own their homes and interest rates are dropping…

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    Mute Rob Russell
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    Aug 1st 2019, 10:47 AM

    @joe: yes they absolutely are

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    Mute Willy
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    Jul 31st 2019, 6:36 AM

    More tax from FFG …

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    Mute Adrian
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    Jul 31st 2019, 6:45 AM

    Our central banks “expert” analysis seems to be to look at the current number and then add a little bit onto that!

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    Mute Adrian
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    Jul 31st 2019, 6:53 AM

    And aren’t we all so lucky that FFG never brought us to the brink of recession!

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    Mute Adrian
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    Jul 31st 2019, 12:18 PM

    Its always somebody else’s fault, brexit, or the financial crash, or the butterfly that flapped its wings the wrong way in brazil, its never the fault of the useless idiots in dail eireann.

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    Mute Donal Carey
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    Jul 31st 2019, 7:13 AM

    We need to stand up stop thinking about how bad it will be without England financially and start thinking about Irish unity and how it will benefit us as a nation of course if won’t benefit us straight away but a few years down the line it will. Those figures the central bank send out I would take them with a grain of salt .Time to stop moaning and get on with it.

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    Jul 31st 2019, 7:37 AM

    @Donal Carey: what if the vote goes the other way ,what then and it is likely to do that as the uncertainty that is around the corner

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    Jul 31st 2019, 9:35 AM

    @Donal Carey: we really don’t want or need that money pit!

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    Jul 31st 2019, 10:04 AM

    @FlopFlipU: Negative everything points to a United Ire and it’s about time

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    Mute Gilly Moriarty
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    Jul 31st 2019, 9:33 AM

    Once northern Ireland see how britain has betrayed them, it will a work itself out.

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    Mute garry murphy
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    Jul 31st 2019, 10:40 AM

    What will they use to scare us with when its all sorted.

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    Mute Adam O'hEidhin
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    Jul 31st 2019, 1:08 PM

    Is this the same regulator that predicted a soft landing at the height of the Celtic tiger?

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    Mute Kieran Stafford
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    Jul 31st 2019, 12:06 PM

    The banks will be a great help to struggling people. They give you an umbrella when the sun is out, then take it off you when it’s raining

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    Mute Joseph Molloy
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    Jul 31st 2019, 12:09 PM

    Scare mungering again like 12 years ago

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    Mute The Great Unwashed
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    Jul 31st 2019, 12:47 PM

    @Joseph Molloy:
    You may have missed it, but 12 years ago the proverbial muck hit the fan in this country like never before and we’re still suffering the consequences. Where exactly do you see the scaremongering?

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    Mute JeremiahMcDonagh
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    Jul 31st 2019, 2:03 PM

    Brexit won’t happen. English are stupid alright but not economically suicidal. London is the powerhouse and voted remain. Money talks.

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