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BUREAUCRACY PREVENTED THE marriage of a same-sex couple in Cork today, on the first day that such unions were rendered legal within Ireland.
Dolores Murphy and her partner Mabel Stoop-Murphy were told by officials at Cork registry office that the marriage could not take place because a 24-hour notice period required under the Civil Registration Act between their signing of a declaration of consent and the marriage itself had not fully passed.
A clearly heartbroken Dolores subsequently told reporters that “as usual the government has let us down again”.
She and Mabel received the news only minutes before they had been due to wed.
The couple are free to marry from tomorrow though it is unclear when the ceremony will now be held.
Earlier Dolores had told RTE’s Morning Ireland that her father, who died in 2013, would have been “so happy to be present for this day”.
I never thought this would actually happen, not here. It’s overwhelming, I’m absolutely shaking from head to toe, I’m just so happy that it’s actually happening.
She described the day as belonging to the couple’s son James.
“It’s his day,” she said.
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Hey look I’m all in favour of gay marriage but it’s hardly the governments fault the couple didn’t follow the rules or read the forms they were signing.
Richard and Cormac became the first to get married today in Tipperary .
Because Richard and Cormac followed the rules and submitted the required paperwork in a timely fashion.
Exactly Rasputin
exactly rasputin for me this ultimate equal rights every man women child dog and cat has to deal with red tape. I for one welcome our gay friends
The first line of the article is such a load of bollock$. “Bureaucracy prevented…”. No it wasn’t bureaucracy. It was the bloody rules. Suck it up and get on with it. Attention seeking asshats.
How many times has this happened to a straight couple and NOT been reported in the media?
Equality should work both ways!
You’re spot on there AN other
Personally, if I were gay and wanting to get married I’d wait a few weeks at least to make sure all the kinks had been ironed out and not rushed into it on the first day. This is new territory for everybody involved and it’s more than likely that there will be a few misunderstandings like this surrounding the first few weddings.
welcome to equality – I for one am actually genuinely happy you get to experience it equally – as are the majority of the country thankfully.
… Now begins the civil rights campaign for gay divorce
My heart goes out to theses fellas, the government are still trying to block these two men from getting married.
Equality: same laws for everyone.
Exactly Damien, can’t see how they got to the conclusion that the government has let them down. Did they get incorrect info from the government or something? The rules and procedures are the same for everyone, as they should be. It’s a pity for them after organising the day but hardly the government’s fault they were mistaken about the timeline.
I don’t have any sympathy for them. They never followed the rules and they thought because their gay we should bend the law for them. We all have to put up with stupid laws deal with it.
I wouldn’t say they were trying to bend the laws. I’m guessing they just got the timing wrong.
Damien it’s not hard to add 24hrs onto a time. If they gave notice at 10am they can’t get married till 10am the following day. It’s not rocket science.
… It’s their own fault
As usual the government let them down? Ffs suck it up and stop being victims.
Thanks Obama!
Oh bore off, ssriously Goverment has let use down…..they have did more than enough to facilitate u.
Seriously, why is this even news. They didn’t follow the right procedure simple as.
I went to the cinema tonight but it was full. Apparently, if I had booked a ticket I’d have got in. WHERE’S MY FCUKING ARTICLE?
Gay marriage helping ugly people to commit to a life of suffering.
It’s the government’s fault you couldn’t be arsed organising yourselves properly and registering your intent the same way the rest of us mere mortals have to? You’ll be wanting Enda to wipe your arse and brush your teeth for you next!
Sounds like a bit of media hungry ppl looking to get a free wedding out of this. Everyone who is getting married straight or gay follows same rules so I don’t get the issue. This is a non media story but more stupidity on their behalf. But hey if they get a free wedding reception, honeymoon then the government are great……
I’d also be very interested to know which made them more upset.. Not getting married today or not being the first to get married and have pictures in papers , to etc…..
“If you’re not first, you’re last” Ricky Bobby
I really don’t get this. Seriously annoying situation but the governments fault “as usual”?
Enda should call a enquiry over this!!!
“It’s his day” me hole! They were looking for 15 mins of fame and it backfired, morto for ya
Feel sorry for the poor kid and his dad
I feel sorry for you, you’re such a narrow minded hater
Francis – the child looks very healthy to me, but I would be worried by any children you may have.
We had to give three months notice to the registrar/church and attend a pre-marital course :S. 1983.
24hrs notice? We were inside the 3 months notice that was required and we had to go to court to get permission to wed, I presume reason for this is to ensure we were genuine and not marrying for visas. We also had to do the pre-marriage course…so what is this story about again…oh yeah didn’t read the small print!
So typical of the Journal to run with a non story because the gays are involved. These clowns are the reason their “wedding” didn’t take place, nobody else. They’ll probably be on the radio tomorrow with some sob story looking for a freebie. Schills.
Should they not have checked the rules … Similar rules apply to straight couples ,
Good news….still got your pic in the media!
Couldn’t they have gotten married later today once the time had elapsed?
“She described the day as belonging to the couple’s son James.” Couples son? God biology sure has changed a lot since I was at school
Genetically, it’s possible for a child to have three parents (ie. Donor egg)!
possibly two dads – but how does two mams work?
Donor egg implanted into another woman for pregnancy. How the hell does two dads work?
I’m sorry the government “didn’t let them down again”. They didn’t follow the law and give adequate notice as required. Heterosexual couples would be turned away also if they did not give the required notice. So get a grip. Your not special. As for calling the media in to moan about it..your only showing your own stupidity in timekeeping . Good luck with the wedding by the way.
Two people get their facts mixed up about their marriage procedure. This is news?
In the interest of equality should the headline be changed to “Red tape prevented this couple from marrying today”
Just saying
should say – “couple decide at last minute to make claim to fame – fail due to piss poor planning”
No Dolores, you are wrong. Its not the government’s fault – you simply didn’t follow the procedures, they’re fairly straightforward.
In your rush to be one of, if not the first same sex couple to marry, you forgot the procedures.
Anyway have a good day when you finally organise it, all the best to you both for the future.
Thick or wha?
Hope that poor kid got his IQ levels from his dad.
Whoever HE is.
Shhhhhhh. Don’t mention the “F” word. The kid doesn’t need on don’t ya know ?
So we have another day before the sky falls lads?? great news. Off to church for a pray with ye.
Not religious Robbie boy, sorry, try again
You realise having no religion to hide your shameful bigotry and homophobia behind makes you an even worse person right?
Worse person according to who Rob ? I lot of people find your opinions vile, shameful and abhorrent don’t forget that.
Always read the small print!… But tomorrow’s another day.
That photo is just soooo wrong, poor kid.
Do you think poor kid when you see children from single parent homes Ken? Do you think single parent households are so wrong? If not, why do you think it in this instance?
29 red thumbs. Shocking
Not everyone agrees with your point of view Robbie boy ? Shocking.
Ah bless them, hopefully it will be sorted for them asap and best of luck to them
Click bait headline results in comments backlash against shonky journalism. There is hope after all.
Im waiting for the first same sex divorce. Then they’ll have reached true equality. Love is blind, marriage is an eye opener.
Oh what a gay day
Learn to count
More trash news! who cares What they do ?
Your actually required to give 5 days notice but the registrar can reduce this to 24hrs in exceptional circumstances but under zero circumstances can he/she reduce this further or the marriage is simply null and void. It seems to me the “state” done their best for this couple and could do no more. They didn’t read the paperwork, simples!
I have NO comment or opinion on this story.
We should be perusing for the innocent victims in France they can marry any time
I feel sorry for them that their day is ruined but it’s nobody’s fault except their own. They should have checked their timings properly.
They got their name in the paper so all will be well
My comment is meant to say praying for
Interesting.
10 and a half years after informing the Registrar Generals Office about falsified information on the 3 month notice and fraudulent declarations made prior to my “marriage”, I’m still waiting for the Registrar General to do something about it.
How he’s going to register the “divorce” will be most interesting, because he needs to use a Birth Surname, which he knows to be untrue in order to “register” it.
I feel sorry for the kid. But sure once his 2 mammys are happy that’s all that matters …
Everyone here feels sorry for your kids Tony. I honestly hope they have the sense to see through the hatred and make their own minds up later in life. You and your ilk had your time. It’s gone. let it go.
Lol… you keep telling yourself that. Where do you get hatred from concern for a child anyway ? Do you hate children ?
You have absolutely no idea what circumstances led to them being a family. You are not concerned for that child one bit because to me he looks like every other child of that age, Happy to be loved by his parents. That child is their child no matter how much you hate it. This referendum makes him a hell of a lot more secure in that family unit. You voted against him being secure in the family unit that was never going to change whether a yes or no vote won. Remind me again how I hate children and you don’t??
I don’t hate it, makes no difference to me, I feel sorry for him. If you had any regard for children you would too. They doesn’t deserve your pc bullshìt.
RTE may have lost the rights to the Six Nations but the backed the right couple tonight over TV3 to report on.
Such a lot of begrudgery on here. Such absolute hate and nastiness. Have we not moved on from the dark and narrow minded 80′s?
I hope this couple don’t read these comments. Best of luck to them both and their son
Rasputin, you are a
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