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3 Midweek Longreads: Who's the worrier in your family?

Longreads to savour or save.

IF YOU WANT a juicy longread to sink your teeth into, you’ve come to the right place.

Here are three to save for a moment of peace, or devour straight away.

1. The family’s designated worrier

There’s a designated worrier in each family, writes Judith Shulevitz – and is it usually the mum? That’s what she argues, but she’s not saying that dads don’t care. Here are her thoughts.

(New York Times, 10 mins)

I wish I could say that fathers and mothers worry in equal measure. But they don’t. Disregard what your two-career couple friends say about going 50-50. Sociological studies of heterosexual couples from all strata of society confirm that, by and large, mothers draft the to-do lists while fathers pick and choose among the items. And whether a woman loves or hates worry work, it can scatter her focus on what she does for pay and knock her partway or clean off a career path.

2. Assemble this

One of the nominees for this year’s Turner prize is a collective of people who don’t call themselves artists, or architects – but they’ve made some really incredible temporary and permanent structures. Here’s what they do – you’re bound to be inspired.

(The Guardian, 10 mins)

A year after the Cineroleum, they built a second temporary events space under a motorway flyover in east London, commissioned by the Barbican and arts group Create. It was designed like a little house trapped beneath the road, its pitched roof poking up between the roaring lanes of traffic like a fairytale cottage that had lost its way. Made of wooden bricks sawn from railway sleepers and hung like drapery over a scaffolding frame, it was built by an army of 200 volunteers and provided a surreal setting for films, talks and children’s play sessions.

3. The 90s guide to NYC

If you use a 90s tourist guide to NYC to walk around the Big Apple today, what do you find? That’s what Rhett Jones decided to find out.

(Hopes and Fears, mins)

The food that’s recommended in the East Village is either mostly gone (Benny’s Burritos, Hotel Galvez, Princess Pamela’s Southern Youch) or not open for business yet (Hasaki, Lanza’s) and I resign myself to walking down Houston Street and hitting Katz Deli (founded in 1888, in guidebooks perpetually). As you walk in, a very large man hands you a ticket that your order will be written on. You hold onto this ticket with intense paranoia because if you lose it you’ll be charged $50.

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    Nov 9th 2019, 8:06 AM

    Cos that decisions not gonna cause any problems.

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    Nov 9th 2019, 7:41 AM

    “A nonagenarian lawyer representing a Hindu deity “ ..well presumably the lawyer for the other side is also representing a fictitious deity?

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    Nov 9th 2019, 8:42 AM

    This is a very dangerous development.

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    Dec 6th 2019, 3:58 AM

    @Gary Sheahan: why?

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    Nov 9th 2019, 8:40 AM

    When the gods start warring with each other it seems to go on forever .I wonder did ever hear about a Good Friday kind of thing and follow their poor mortals and come up with some sort of arrangement

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    Nov 9th 2019, 9:42 AM

    Hmm, what could possibly go wrong?

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    Nov 9th 2019, 8:28 AM

    India going out of their way to piss off the muslims

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    Nov 9th 2019, 8:58 AM

    @Mr.Misery: yep the Danes and French caused mayhem with a couple of cartoons. What are the Indians thinking??

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    Nov 9th 2019, 10:57 AM

    @Greg Daniel: PM Modi is a Hindu ethno-nationalist, he’s been whipping up anti-Muslim sentiment for ages in India as a means to get into and hold onto power-he is a dangerous individual who will end up formenting mass murder if he’s not careful

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    Nov 9th 2019, 11:40 AM

    @Mr.Misery: What could India possibly have against the religion that killed as many as 80 million of their people?

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    Nov 9th 2019, 1:12 PM

    @DJ François: Yep, definitely. Kashmir was only the start of it. Now this. Lots more to come

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    Nov 9th 2019, 3:14 PM

    @Fifty Shades of Sé: 80 million Indians killed by Muslims? Where did you get that from?

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    Nov 10th 2019, 8:24 AM

    @Fifty Shades of Sé: religion killed 80 million? Hope they caught it.

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    Dec 6th 2019, 4:00 AM

    @DJ François: hate mongering at it’s worst

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    Dec 6th 2019, 4:01 AM

    @Niall Carry: I’m a Hindu. I know what we have suffered at the hands of invaders since time immemorial

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    Nov 10th 2019, 11:58 PM

    But that is what Islam does, look at all the Christian sites in Israel as they all had an Islamic site built on most of them. And Christians did the same to pagan sites and so on and so on…

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