Advertisement

We need your help now

Support from readers like you keeps The Journal open.

You are visiting us because we have something you value. Independent, unbiased news that tells the truth. Advertising revenue goes some way to support our mission, but this year it has not been enough.

If you've seen value in our reporting, please contribute what you can, so we can continue to produce accurate and meaningful journalism. For everyone who needs it.

Alamy Stock Photo

Poll: Can two people who are in a relationship with one another go on a 'date'?

Today is the date of many dates.

HAPPY DESIGNATED DAY of romance!

February 14th, the annual day of hastily bought flowers and overly expensive gestures of undying love. There will be cards, possibly chocolates, and maybe even a date night?

But can couples even go on dates? To be clear, can two people in an exclusive relationship go on a ‘date’? Or is that reserved for single people only?

Some say ‘dates’ are an event for single people to dress up a bit and get to know someone new. Others that couples can also get in on the action: romantic time set aside to spend together.

We’ve asked this question before (possibly even more than once), but who knows what recent societal upheavals have done to the public’s conception of dates.

So, today we’re asking: Can two people who are in a relationship with one another go on a ‘date’?


Poll Results:

Yes (5819)
No (1319)
I don't care please stop asking. (1305)

Readers like you are keeping these stories free for everyone...
A mix of advertising and supporting contributions helps keep paywalls away from valuable information like this article. Over 5,000 readers like you have already stepped up and support us with a monthly payment or a once-off donation.

Close
42 Comments
This is YOUR comments community. Stay civil, stay constructive, stay on topic. Please familiarise yourself with our comments policy here before taking part.
Leave a Comment
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Brian Dunne
    Favourite Brian Dunne
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:46 AM

    Told the wife I booked a table for 7 30. She was excited and got all dolled up. Seemed disappointed when we got there though, I thought she liked snooker.

    161
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute offside again
    Favourite offside again
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 3:00 PM

    @Brian Dunne: I thought my wife liked football and didn’t mind me drinking beer. Simple mistake to make.

    12
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Larry Betts
    Favourite Larry Betts
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 4:28 PM

    @Brian Dunne: Cue the jokes about ‘that sinking feeling’

    8
    See 2 more replies ▾
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Pat Barry
    Favourite Pat Barry
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 6:36 PM

    @Larry Betts: …and which colour to go for!

    5
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Larry Betts
    Favourite Larry Betts
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 7:24 PM

    @Pat Barry: Kissing the pink for the day that’s in it

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute thomas molloy
    Favourite thomas molloy
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:56 AM

    Many couples have to work long hours to pay mortgages that they sometimes have to schedule “Dates” to go somewhere nice and organise babysitter if they have children. It’s normal.

    59
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Dramafree 2023
    Favourite Dramafree 2023
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:04 PM

    @thomas molloy: I am confused why the mortgage is mentioned? Is this relevant to a date? I mean cant one have a date night at home, feed the kids first, put them to bed and cook a nice meal to enjoy together. Doesnt have to be expensive just had to be a priority.

    76
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Setanta O'Toole
    Favourite Setanta O'Toole
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:51 PM

    @Dramafree 2023: you’d need a bloody mortgage to go on a date these days, amirite fellas?

    26
    See 2 more replies ▾
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Me Me
    Favourite Me Me
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 2:43 PM

    @Setanta O’Toole: No. A walk on a beach is free.

    11
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Karen Marten
    Favourite Karen Marten
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 3:35 PM

    @Setanta O’Toole: especially on valentines

    5
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute offside again
    Favourite offside again
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:17 PM

    Journalists noticed an empty seat is an otherwise packed stadium for a derby and got curious. They asked the man next to it did he know why ?
    “Oh, it was for my wife”
    “She couldn’t make it to the match ?”
    “Unfortunately she died”
    ” So sorry to hear that, very sad. You should have brought a friend to share the the experience, no ; maybe ?”
    “No, I couldn’t do that ; they’re all at the Funeral.”

    47
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute den
    Favourite den
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 2:03 PM

    @offside again: ah the auld ones are….. the auld ones!!

    14
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Carl Valderrama
    Favourite Carl Valderrama
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:41 AM

    This website is serious garbage lads, my goodness.

    63
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Ger Whelan
    Favourite Ger Whelan
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:52 AM

    @Carl Valderrama: Took you more than 6 months to realise that?.

    21
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute mcleixlip
    Favourite mcleixlip
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:44 PM

    Ah ha ha….all the perpetually single blokes with lots to say. Hope you all got some Nivea hand-cream for Valentine’s.

    15
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Dan The Man
    Favourite Dan The Man
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:48 AM

    I meant to tell her Darling when I look into your eyes time just simply stands still but I stumbled at the last minute and said jaysus your face would only stop a bleedin clock.

    14
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute gav0kelly
    Favourite gav0kelly
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:49 AM

    @Róisín Flemping Bunt-Himmler: Travellers have influence?

    7
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Larry Betts
    Favourite Larry Betts
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 8:48 PM

    @Róisín Flemping Bunt-Himmler: Which Wards are they?

    1
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Dan The Man
    Favourite Dan The Man
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:52 AM

    She was good from far …….but yet far from good!

    7
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute David O Brien
    Favourite David O Brien
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:59 AM

    Love is in the air….. apparently

    5
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Andrew Kenny
    Favourite Andrew Kenny
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:53 AM

    In the words of Donald Trump: What a st##d question!

    7
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Andrew Kenny
    Favourite Andrew Kenny
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:53 AM

    @Andrew Kenny: st###d

    6
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Mr “JonnieBoy” Johnson
    Favourite Mr “JonnieBoy” Johnson
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:03 PM

    @gav0kelly: flatulence, that’s why the smellies are at it again

    6
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Sea Spirit
    Favourite Sea Spirit
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:06 PM

    @gav0kelly: Did you know county councils have a caravan loan scheme specially for travellers.

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Francisco O brien
    Favourite Francisco O brien
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:30 AM

    If their just friends

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Stephen Heffernan
    Favourite Stephen Heffernan
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:24 PM

    @Francisco O brien: You typed four words and still managed to get the grammar wrong.

    31
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Paddy C
    Favourite Paddy C
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 9:42 PM

    What’s actually mad at the moment is the amount of lads I know that don’t want to get in relationships is getting more common and by that I don’t mean staying single sleeping around. Just avoiding contact with women altogether and having peace of mind and freedom very surprised by the trend that’s growing now.

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Breda Clarke
    Favourite Breda Clarke
    Report
    Feb 15th 2025, 1:44 PM

    My husband and myself still go on dates after 34 years of marriage. We make an effort to dress well and have dinner out once a month. It’s important to still make an effort for each other.

    3
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute martin finnegan
    Favourite martin finnegan
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 5:00 PM

    If in relationship for long time love each other going to find time to do stiff and so shouldn’t the once off rip of costs of valentine’s day. As know especially in hospitality sector ripoed off on ordinary day. Love love but we usually go out week before or something valentine’s day is money racket

    3
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Sea Spirit
    Favourite Sea Spirit
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 12:05 PM

    @Róisín Flemping Bunt-Himmler: No wonder insurance companies riddle us.
    Nonsense carry on, she should have been barred.

    3
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Helena Camella Cummins
    Favourite Helena Camella Cummins
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 3:15 PM

    How on earth can you be in a committed relationship and still be shopping around? Catch a grip.!!!

    3
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Gavin Smartr
    Favourite Gavin Smartr
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:30 PM

    Anything to stipe her from cooking!

    2
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Gavin Smartr
    Favourite Gavin Smartr
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:31 PM

    @Gavin Smartr: stop

    5
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Alan
    Favourite Alan
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:09 PM

    @Kieran Conroy: yeah. Get with it. Date r.pe jokes are where it’s at.

    1
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Alan
    Favourite Alan
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:10 PM

    @Alan: apologies. Reply was to Larry Smiths hilarious joke.

    1
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Kieran Conroy
    Favourite Kieran Conroy
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 1:39 PM

    @Alan: Exactly that. A JOKE. You wokists don’t have a sense of humour it seems.

    5
    See 2 more replies ▾
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Jack Hayes
    Favourite Jack Hayes
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 3:07 PM

    @Kieran Conroy: That’s incorrect. Using the made-i up word ‘wokists’ is hilarious. Hilariously stu pid.

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Kieran Conroy
    Favourite Kieran Conroy
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 4:39 PM

    @Jack Hayes: Are you offended Jack? Oh dear, you appear to be a fully paid up member of the wokist club…

    4
    Install the app to use these features.
    Mute Concerned Driver
    Favourite Concerned Driver
    Report
    Feb 14th 2025, 11:48 PM

    Yes. It’s called a date night.

    1
Submit a report
Please help us understand how this comment violates our community guidelines.
Thank you for the feedback
Your feedback has been sent to our team for review.

Leave a commentcancel