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Daniel Buckley was among a group of friends who joined the Titanic at Queenstown, planning to start a new life in America. Here is his account of the sinking of the Titanic taken from Nic Compton’s new book – Titanic on Trial: The Night the Titanic Sank, Told Through the Testimonies of Her Passengers and Crew.
THEY TRIED TO keep us down at first on our steerage deck. They did not want us to go up to the First Class place at all. I cannot say who they were; I think they were sailors.
The First Class deck was higher up than the steerage deck, and there were some steps leading up to it: nine or ten steps, and a gate just at the top of the steps. There was one steerage passenger, and he was getting up the steps. Just as he was going in the little gate, a fellow came along and chucked him down; threw him down into the steerage place.
This fellow got excited, and he ran after him, and he could not find him. He said if he could get hold of him, he would throw him into the ocean. The gate was not locked at the time we made the attempt to get up there, but the sailor, or whoever he was, locked it. So this fellow that went up after him broke the lock on it. All the steerage passengers went up on the First Class deck then, when the gate was broken. They all got up there. They could not keep them down.
There was a great crowd of people. They were all terribly excited. They were all going for the decks as quick as they could. The girls were very excited, and they were crying; and all the boys were trying to console them and saying that it was nothing serious. Then the lifeboats were preparing.
There were five lifeboats sent out. I was in the sixth. I was holding the ropes all the time, helping to let down the five lifeboats that went down first, as well as I could.
When the sixth lifeboat was prepared, there was a big crowd of men standing on the deck, passengers and sailors and firemen mixed. And they all jumped in. So I said I would take my chance with them. There were no ladies there at the same time.
I went into the boat. Then two officers came along and said all of the men could come out. And they brought a lot of steerage passengers with them; and they were mixed, every way, ladies and gentlemen. They said all the men could get out and let the ladies in. The men that were in the boat at first fought, and would not get out, but the officers drew their revolvers, and fired shots over our heads, and then the men got out. Six men were left in the boat; I think they were firemen and sailors.
I was crying. There was a woman in the boat, and she had thrown her shawl over me, and she told me to stay in there. I believe she was Mrs Astor. Then they did not see me, and the boat was lowered down into the water, and we rowed away out from the steamer.
There was a girl from my place, and just when she got down into the lifeboat she thought that the boat was sinking into the water. Her name was Bridget Bradley. She climbed one of the ropes as far as she could and tried to get back into the Titanic again, as she thought she would be safer in it than in the lifeboat. She was just getting up when one of the sailors went out to her and pulled her down again.
After surviving the sinking, Buckley found work in a hotel in New York. In 1917, he joined the 69th regiment, the so-called ‘Irish Brigade’, and served at the Western Front, where he was shot by a sniper while rescuing injured soldiers. His remains were buried in Ireland in 1919.
Titanic on Trial: The Night the Titanic Sank, Told Through the Testimonies of Her Passengers and Crew by Nic Compton. Published by Bloomsbury Publishing Plc
Parental alienation, fathers rights and some form tax relief for unmarried fathers paying maintenance should also be enforced, still I don’t know how some parents can sleep at night not paying their share.
@Dean Burroughs: why should anyone get tax relief on paying maintenance?
@Louise Tracey: what’s your objection to tax relief on maintenance payments… That’s a strange one..
@Dean Burroughs: don’t think it’s strange at all. Parents who do support their kids and are still in the relationship (married or not) don’t get tax relief on their financial input. Why should ones who pay maintenance???
It’s that mother’s who don’t work get a tax credit for the child but don’t use it as they get paid off the social while the dad that pays maintenance doesn’t get to use the credit. If Ur a married couple u can claim your husband or wifes tax credits if they aren’t working so y can’t dad use the credit as Well
@Laura Crawford: He can use the credit. The credit can be signed over to him. The stipulations for this are on the revenue website.
@Alan Leahy: I know a girl whose holding her ex to ransom over the credit refusing to sign it over unless he pays more maintenance. She’s minding kids from her house cash in hand. She shouldn’t have a choice if she’s not working the credit should automatically transfer to the other parent
@Dean Burroughs: dean, can I get tax relief on the money I pay out for my kids or must I be separate first?
I think I read some time back how this works… The maintenance payment is split by the court into an allocation for the child and some for the parent (mother in the following example). So, if 75% of a monthly payment of 400 is allocated to the child then the father pays income tax on that 300, but not the remaining 25% which goes to the mother. That 100 is treated as income for the mother and is subject to normal income tax rules for her.
@Ana Nonymous: the maximum a court will give as maintenance is €400 per month. Ever try raring a child on €400 per month? That’s if you even get it. No one is interested in helping you if the father doesn’t pay. You live in a country where women are forced to give birth and then criticize them for trying to earn as much money to raise their kids!
A parent who literally abandons their child (children) should be held totally responsible by the state.
@TheBluffmaster2: in Germany unless the fathers name and pops number is stated on the birth cert a mother can not get children’s allowance from the state.
This allows the state to recoup the cost of raising the child from the father.
A simple thing to do can’t understand why we don’t do it here.
@Theunpopularpopulist: It’s a legal requirement to have the fathers name on the birth certificate here so we do it already.
@Catherine Sims: you can refuse here and you’re not penalised for doing so. Tie it to social welfare then they’ll list the name.
But what’s the penalty for parents that don’t pay? Where both parents are living, both should pay. No excuses.
@john Appleseed: but no one will implement it. I know someone who had a judgement for child support against a guy and he refused. She went back to court and he didn’t appear. A warrant was issued and even though she reported to the Guards when he was in his mothers to go and arrest him they said they were too busy. Eventually she went down to the station and insisted and they arrested him. He was sentenced to a month in Mountjoy and released after three hours due to overcrowding. He still hasn’t paid a penny.
@john Appleseed: +1
And what about parents who don’t pay for children under the age of 7 who chose not to work etc….
Is there anything for those in that category. Or is it just a case of there no real ramifications for not supporting your child?
Is there a penalty to stop one parent to not allow the other parent see their children too?
@gjpb: Yes, go to court and get an order for visitation. If the parent with custody breaks this order then bring them back to court. The penalty is a fine and/or prison.
@gjpb: of course there is.
@gjpb: it’s not fit for purpose. Anyone denying a child it’s father should have custody removed in my opinion
@Alan Leahy: It’s never enforced, the mother of my child broke court agreed access 100% and admitted it to the judge and laughed…..the judge did nothing.
There;s a growing industry in Ireland in keeping kids alienated from their parents.
I’m paying maintenance and I don’t see my children anybody who don’t see there children should not pay maintenance FF would want to look at the judge’s and the family court it’s a joke sending a father to jail because they don’t have the money to pay it father’s have no rights FF would want to look at the rights of father’s first before looking for money every mother and FATHER have a right to see there kids
@Fran O’Keeffe: how come you don’t see your kids? Why don’t you go back to court? It’s a child’s right to know BOTH their parents.
@Deborah ….the courts refuse to penalize mothers who break court ordered access, its a joke!
I’m paying maintenance and I don’t see my children FF would want to look at the judges and father’s rights first family court is a joke
@Fran O’Keeffe: Why don’t you see your children.
@Alan Leahy: It’s called parental alienation and it’s growing. There are no laws in this country that recognise it unlike the UK.
@Fran O’Keeffe: It isn’t the childs fault that parents split up, however it is right for the father to want to give that child a decent upbringing rather than just walk away.
@Alan Leahy: because my xwife told lies instead of bringing the children into court and asking them what they would like
@Fran O’Keeffe: Family court was always a joke, my granny and father looked after me and my sibling as they always did without any contact from my mother but she always had the child allowance book and kept that money for herself. Then when we were teens my mother then wanted visiting rights and she got them with a payment of 25 pounds a week to cover expenses from my father. She was the one earning more than my father and it was my father who looked after us without a single look or penny from her. All she wanted visiting rights for was to show us off to her friends to back up her lies as she was a bitter woman. The judges are eejits and they haven’t a clue about sly parents or how dysfunctional families behave…
@Fran O’Keeffe: sounds like a pile of poo to me, no judge is gonna deny a father seeing their kids (or vice verse) without genuine reason…. You need to keep talking here and explain… And yes you should explain as you brought it up.
@Alan Madden: Yes they will, they might make orders granting access and use scary words to try to get mothers to give access but they never enforce the rulings no jail or fines on mothers, its common knowledge fathers have no rights in Ireland.
Pay up or get out of the bed.
A Wedding to follow once a child turns 7 years, may be the norm…
Always laws to chase maintenance, but of course in Ireland they’d never dream of tackling Parental Alienation Syndrome ….they never enforce access arrangements.
Abusing children is worth too much money to them
And again it will be a mess when they get round to sorting it out as everything becomes a mess when these people try to fix anything?
God I wish Willy would shave off that moustache.
He reminds of someone. You know you’re man from Germany! I think he’s dead now though.
@gerry fallon: I thought it was a hairy Mary lol.
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