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SUICIDE PREVENTION AND support group, Console, is hoping to train more ordinary Irish citizens to recognise the warning signs before somebody takes his or her own life.
The charity has seen hundreds of people participate in a number of practical, one-day programmes, introducing them to their Question, Persuade and Refer scheme (QPR).
It has already saved lives, claims founder and chief executive Paul Kelly.
“Communities are taking ownership of the crisis and it is becoming a great movement,” he told TheJournal.ie.
“We have had great demand from areas where there are high rates of suicide. For example, people from the farming community have taken part. There has also been a high uptake from those who work with young people.”
Feedback from trainees has also been wholly positive, added Kelly.
“We have found HR managers tell us that they would have felt inadequate or ill-equipped to broach the issue with staff prior to QPR. Also, more employees are willing to be forthright about self-harming or suicide ideation if they have actively participated in the programme.
It has made a difference already. It has saved lives.
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And, it is not about taking on a heavy burden, continues Kelly.
“It is daunting to confront someone and you may get an answer you don’t want to hear. But this programme trains you to be proactive and have the know-how to get a person through the crisis, which is often temporary.”
What to expect?
“Question, persuade and refer are three simple steps that anyone can quickly learn to help save a life from suicide,” explains Console.
“Just as people trained in CPR help save thousands of lives each year, people trained in QPR learn how to recognise the warning signs of a suicide crisis and how to question, persuade and refer someone to help.
People considering suicide often feel very isolated and alone. They may feel that nobody can help them or understand their pain.
“When unable to see any other way of dealing with pain, suicide may seem to be a way out.”
Those who take part in the courses become known as ‘gatekeepers’, people who have learned how to recognise the warning signs of suicide and how to offer hope and help. They can be health care professionals, parents, friends, neighbours, teachers, doctors, nurses, priests, work colleagues, gardaí, caseworkers or others who are strategically positioned.
The lessons include role-play and other knowledge-building exercises. Details of the one-day course can be found here.
Helplines:
Samaritans 1850 60 90 90 or email jo@samaritans.org
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It’s very hard to see through the propaganda in this war. If you believe the Ukrainians, the Russians are nearly beaten. Listen to Russian side and the Ukrainians are surrendering in droves. As for asov, I wouldn’t believe anything they say.
@Rian Lynch: nah, don’t really get on with nazis who drag civilians into their bunkers as human shields. If they want to go to Valhalla, fine, but let the civilians go.
@Bart Teeling: the Russians lie about everything. From the Malaysian flight, to Salisbury, to no plans to invade and just running war games. Also lied about not using the rocket that blew up the station. Odious regime
@John Comerford: they’re no different to the other major aggressors, the US and UK lie to invade countries too. War is a horrific and shameful constant in our world, young lives snuffed out by the decisions of greedy old men.
@Bart Teeling: why would Ukrainians drag their countryman into their bunkers? To shield themselves from Russian “soldiers”!? Its painful how some people are brainwashed by putlers propaganda. Glory to Ukrainians
@Rian Lynch: i don’t understand any Irish person siding with the Russians in this conflict. Hoping that they are based in Orwell road. Would be sad to think that these are Irish. To Declan there are a lot of very powerful Russian Jews. Not sure what he is trying to imply but not good.
With all due respect to those fighters, they are now fighting a losing battle in that steel plant and must fully realise that those animals are not going to just pack up and head back to Russia. Time to call it a day and let those women and children have a chance to live. Ukraine have somewhere between 600-800 russian pow’s, so it’s possible the fighters could get back as part of a prisoner swap. Although perhaps Russia would not be keen on swaps involving Azov.
@Tommy Roche: which is probbaly why they wont surrender. they know theyll be paraded out for some show trial and then either executed or imprisoned forever in some hell hole in Russia.
@Tommy Roche: Russia have kidnapped many thousands of Ukrainian civilians from Eastern Ukraine. Removing them against their will to “camps” in Russia and they are playing this off to Russian TV as Ukrainian refugees seeking shelter from Ukrainians Nazi government. They hold the upper hand. Do you think they care about their soldiers being held as POWs? They sent them to war under false pretences. Also we have seen Russian troops targeting and killing civilians in towns right across Ukraine including Mariupol, why do we think they’d allow them to live if they surrendered? The west should have responded militarily when it was clear what was happening. As much as Russia will be judged by history for their actions the west will be judged for our inaction.
@Rian Lynch: So they’re going to sit in some hole in Avozstol until a Russian bunker buster comes through the roof and kills not only them, but the hundreds of women and children stuck in there with them ? They are definitely going to die if they stay there but have at least some chance if they surrender. Just reading telegram now and they are saying the Russians have proposed a ceasefire from 2pm (12pm GMT). Also putting up names, photos, dates of birth of those still alive inside.
@Gerry McCaughey: They have swapped many POW’s already, plus swapped Ukrainian POW’s for the return of the bodies of Russian troops. This is all 100% Russia’s fault and I’m in no way defending what they have done. Just pointing out that they do seem to care about their POW’s, or at least some of them.
@Tommy Roche: maybe some of them. But they also turned down a temporary ceasefire offered by the Ukraine a few weeks ago so that Russia could collect the bodies of their fallen soldiers to send them home to their mothers. There seems to be a large rogue element in Russias military. Some soldiers I’m sure are obeying the rules of law and we have seen many surrender because they were ordered to target civilians. It seems the troops attacking Mariupol have no principles from what we’ve seen. They have bombed almost every civilian building in the city and attacked convoys of civilians leaving during the first short lived ceasefire. I don’t know if I’d trust them to behave if Ukrainians surrendered to them.
@Gerry McCaughey: Definately agree with you that some units of the Russian military are out of control. Seems that many of them actually believe that they are doing good by killing those they believe to be nationalists, and that the majority of civilians wanted them to invade to save them from the ‘nazis’. Crazy stuff that shows the damage that has been caused by exposing russians to years of state media, RT talk shows etc. The likes of our own MEP’s appearing on those shows telling the ‘truth’ about what the EU and NATO were up to certainly didn’t help matters.
@Tommy Roche: totally agree. The scary thing is that this has really exposed Russian society. The amount of anti West hate and blind belief in Putin is scary. It’s also made me think that all those landslide victories for Putin in elections weren’t vote rigging. Once he got rid of any opponent he was worried about he probably did get all those votes. It’s going to take a major change in the political status quo in Russia after this is over and maybe a generation of living under proper freedom before Russia isn’t a threat. Hard to believe that the current Putin supporters were young people when Gorbachev was in power with his openness and freedom.
@Gerry McCaughey: gerry I spent a lot of time in Russia. Worse place I ever worked. They hate the west it is ingrained in them. Didn’t matter I was Irish – my crime was western.
People on here cheering them on are clueless. They want to destroy the west
Some talk about the 9th May that Putin and the Russians will celebrate Victory day. Will we and the Russian people have to witness the Obscenity of what they have done to their neighbours in Ukraine been celebrated. Absolutely not
@Declan Gilsenan: Zelensky was an actor/ comedian who played the part of the president in a Ukrainian sitcom. He then ran for office and was elected president. Other than Putin (who might be a tad biased) nobody has suggested that his election was anything other than fair and free.
It does seem that a high proportion of artists, actors writers etc are of the Jewish faith. I can’t be sure why that is, perhaps the Jewish faith promotes intelligence, creativity etc.
Have you another theory?
@Declan Gilsenan: isn’t it odd that Putin talks about how the country is run by Nazis despite Zelensky being Jewish and having ancestors who were killed by the actual Nazis? Stop trying to make this about anything other than Putin being a land grabbing psychopath.
@Declan Gilsenan: he won the election run off getting over 70% of the vote. The candidate in second place stated that the election was fair and had no complaints. Putin on the other had jailed/poisoned his opponents and murdered dozens of journalists.
@Declan Gilsenan: — If you’re worried about the number of Jews, there must be quite a few in the Kremlin, not to mention in the ranks of the Russian Oligarchs. It would have been more than dense to disband NATO, as your psycho employer would have sent his forces into the former Iron Curtain countries so that the people in Kaliningrad wouldn’t feel so isolated. Actually, I think the Russians should leave Kalinigrad so that it could revert to Konigsberg, which was never Russian.
@shligo boyzz: yup and the notoriety. He wants go down in history as the man who tried to reunite the old Soviet Union. I have no doubt that he will continue if he gets away with this. Unless rumours about his health are true and he kicks the bucket.
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